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Posts about the solo play fantasy in the Second Banana community.

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Second Banana Fantasy Masturbation Solo Play

Masturbation: Solo Sexuality as Its Own Complete Erotic Experience — the Self-Knowledge It Builds, the Range It Spans, and Why It Matters for Everything Else | Second Banana

September 30, 2026

Masturbation is not a consolation prize or a precursor to real sex. It’s the primary erotic experience for many people — the source of genuine self-knowledge, a practice with its own range and richness, and something worth naming directly rather than treating as secondary.

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