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Open Relationship vs Polyamory: What's Actually Different | Second Banana

April 16, 2026

Open relationships and polyamory both involve consensual non-monogamy — but they're built on meaningfully different assumptions. Here's how to tell them apart, and how to figure out which one actually fits you.

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Solo Polyamory: The Radical Act of Choosing Yourself First | Second Banana

April 7, 2026

Solo poly isn't loneliness or commitment-avoidance. It's a deliberate, considered way of building a rich erotic and relational life while remaining the primary author of your own story. Here's what it actually means — and why Second Banana was built for it.

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You're Not Alone: LGBTQ+, Autism, ADHD, and Kink | Second Banana

March 20, 2026

ink is disproportionately common among LGBTQ+ people, autistic people, and those with ADHD — and the research is starting to explain why. Here's what the data says, and why Second Banana was built for you.

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Sexual Sovereignty in a Repressed Society: Survival Tips for Second Bananas | Second Banana

March 19, 2026

Living sex-positively in a culture that still side-eyes desire isn't always easy. Here's how Second Bananas protect their erotic identity, find their people, and thrive — unapologetically.

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First Date Safety: How Second Bananas Meet IRL | Second Banana

March 18, 2026

First dates are exciting. They're also the moment where good judgment matters most. Here's everything Second Bananas need to know about meeting safely — from digital hygiene to IRL check-ins to ENM-specific considerations nobody else talks about.

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Consent — Negotiated — The Second Banana Way

March 12, 2026

Consent isn't a speed bump on the road to pleasure — it's the road itself. Here's what real, negotiated, enthusiastic consent looks like, and why it's what makes the ecstatic actually possible at Second Banana

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All Women Are Women: Second Banana's Commitment to Trans Inclusion | Second Banana

March 9, 2026

At Second Banana, all women are women — full stop. Here's what our commitment to trans inclusion actually looks like, and why a truly sex-positive space can't be one without it.

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The Psychology of Kink: Why We Want What We Want (And Why It Makes Total Sense)

February 28, 2026

Why are people drawn to kink? Second Banana dives into the real psychology behind desire — what turns us on, why it makes sense, and why owning it might be the most self-aware thing you ever do.

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Sexual Sovereignty: Own Your Desires with Second Banana | Second Banana

February 28, 2026

Sexual sovereignty means owning your desires without apology. Discover how Second Banana's ethos of consent, authenticity, and erotic self-determination is rewriting the rules of connection — one fantasy at a time.

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Open Relationship vs Polyamory: What's Actually Different | Second Banana

Solo Polyamory: The Radical Act of Choosing Yourself First | Second Banana

You're Not Alone: LGBTQ+, Autism, ADHD, and Kink | Second Banana

Sexual Sovereignty in a Repressed Society: Survival Tips for Second Bananas | Second Banana

First Date Safety: How Second Bananas Meet IRL | Second Banana

Consent — Negotiated — The Second Banana Way

All Women Are Women: Second Banana's Commitment to Trans Inclusion | Second Banana

The Psychology of Kink: Why We Want What We Want (And Why It Makes Total Sense)

Sexual Sovereignty: Own Your Desires with Second Banana | Second Banana

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