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Open Relationship vs Polyamory: What's Actually Different | Second Banana

April 16, 2026

Open relationships and polyamory both involve consensual non-monogamy — but they're built on meaningfully different assumptions. Here's how to tell them apart, and how to figure out which one actually fits you.

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New Relationship Energy (NRE): What It Is, Why It Fades, How to Use It Well | Second Banana

April 2, 2026

NRE — the intoxicating neurochemical high of new connection — is real, temporary, and genuinely useful if you understand what's actually happening. Here's the full picture, including what to do when it fades.

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What Is Squirting, Really? The Science — And Why It's Fine | Second Banana

March 26, 2026

Is squirting pee? Mostly yes — and completely fine. Here's what the research actually says about squirting vs. female ejaculation, what urea actually means, and why the shame was never warranted.

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Compersion: The Other Side of Jealousy | Second Banana

March 24, 2026

Compersion — the joy of knowing your partner is experiencing pleasure with someone else — is the emotion that mainstream culture never taught you. Here's what it is, where it comes from, and how to cultivate it.

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You're Not Alone: LGBTQ+, Autism, ADHD, and Kink | Second Banana

March 20, 2026

ink is disproportionately common among LGBTQ+ people, autistic people, and those with ADHD — and the research is starting to explain why. Here's what the data says, and why Second Banana was built for you.

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Sexual Sovereignty in a Repressed Society: Survival Tips for Second Bananas | Second Banana

March 19, 2026

Living sex-positively in a culture that still side-eyes desire isn't always easy. Here's how Second Bananas protect their erotic identity, find their people, and thrive — unapologetically.

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First Date Safety: How Second Bananas Meet IRL | Second Banana

March 18, 2026

First dates are exciting. They're also the moment where good judgment matters most. Here's everything Second Bananas need to know about meeting safely — from digital hygiene to IRL check-ins to ENM-specific considerations nobody else talks about.

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Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy: A Beginner's Guide | Second Banana

March 13, 2026

New to ethical non-monogamy? Whether you're poly, solo poly, relationship anarchist, or just curious — here's what ENM actually means, what makes it ethical, and how Second Banana holds space for every structure.

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All Women Are Women: Second Banana's Commitment to Trans Inclusion | Second Banana

March 9, 2026

At Second Banana, all women are women — full stop. Here's what our commitment to trans inclusion actually looks like, and why a truly sex-positive space can't be one without it.

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Open Relationship vs Polyamory: What's Actually Different | Second Banana

New Relationship Energy (NRE): What It Is, Why It Fades, How to Use It Well | Second Banana

What Is Squirting, Really? The Science — And Why It's Fine | Second Banana

Compersion: The Other Side of Jealousy | Second Banana

You're Not Alone: LGBTQ+, Autism, ADHD, and Kink | Second Banana

Sexual Sovereignty in a Repressed Society: Survival Tips for Second Bananas | Second Banana

First Date Safety: How Second Bananas Meet IRL | Second Banana

Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy: A Beginner's Guide | Second Banana

All Women Are Women: Second Banana's Commitment to Trans Inclusion | Second Banana

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