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Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire: Why You’re Not Broken | Second Banana

May 6, 2026

You don’t think about sex until something gets you in the mood. Your partner seems to want it out of nowhere. Neither of you is broken — you just have different desire styles. Here’s the science that explains everything, and why it matters more than your libido.

New Relationship Energy (NRE): What It Is, Why It Fades, How to Use It Well | Second Banana

April 2, 2026

NRE — the intoxicating neurochemical high of new connection — is real, temporary, and genuinely useful if you understand what's actually happening. Here's the full picture, including what to do when it fades.

Compersion: The Other Side of Jealousy | Second Banana

March 24, 2026

Compersion — the joy of knowing your partner is experiencing pleasure with someone else — is the emotion that mainstream culture never taught you. Here's what it is, where it comes from, and how to cultivate it.

Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire: Why You’re Not Broken | Second Banana

New Relationship Energy (NRE): What It Is, Why It Fades, How to Use It Well | Second Banana

Compersion: The Other Side of Jealousy | Second Banana

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