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Aftercare: Not Just for BDSM. For Everyone. | Second Banana

May 14, 2026

Aftercare isn’t a kink-specific nicety. It’s a neurological necessity — and the research on oxytocin crashes, cortisol comedowns, and emotional vulnerability after sex makes a strong case that everyone needs some version of it. Here’s the science, and what to actually do.

The Butt: An Appreciation, a Guide, and a Very Good Case for Reconsidering | Second Banana

April 30, 2026

The anus has more nerve endings than almost anywhere else on the body. This is not an accident. A genuinely useful, anatomy-first guide to anal pleasure — for all bodies, all genders, and the ADHD people who already know about all-day plug wear.

Aftercare: What It Is, Why It Matters, How to Do It | Second Banana

March 26, 2026

Aftercare is what happens when the scene ends — and it might be the most intimate part of any encounter. Here's the full guide to why it matters, what people actually need, and how to negotiate it before things get intense.

Aftercare: Not Just for BDSM. For Everyone. | Second Banana

The Butt: An Appreciation, a Guide, and a Very Good Case for Reconsidering | Second Banana

Aftercare: What It Is, Why It Matters, How to Do It | Second Banana

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