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Tantra: The Ancient Practice That Modern Sex Gets Wrong | Second Banana

April 23, 2026

Tantra isn’t performance or porn logic. It’s a 1,500-year-old system for transforming sexual energy into expanded pleasure, deeper presence, and genuine healing. Here’s what it actually is — and why Second Banana was built for it.

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Kink vs Fetish: What's the Difference and Why It Matters | Second Banana

April 8, 2026

Kink and fetish get used interchangeably — but they describe genuinely different things, and the distinction matters for how you understand yourself and what you're looking for. Here's the full, honest, non-clinical breakdown.

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Solo Polyamory: The Radical Act of Choosing Yourself First | Second Banana

April 7, 2026

Solo poly isn't loneliness or commitment-avoidance. It's a deliberate, considered way of building a rich erotic and relational life while remaining the primary author of your own story. Here's what it actually means — and why Second Banana was built for it.

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Fantasy-Specific Hookups: How Second Banana Changes the Game | Second Banana

March 24, 2026

Hookup culture is broken because nobody says what they actually want. Second Banana is built differently — here's how posting your specific fantasy instead of a vague profile changes everything about who you find and what you experience.

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You're Not Alone: LGBTQ+, Autism, ADHD, and Kink | Second Banana

March 20, 2026

ink is disproportionately common among LGBTQ+ people, autistic people, and those with ADHD — and the research is starting to explain why. Here's what the data says, and why Second Banana was built for you.

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Sexual Sovereignty in a Repressed Society: Survival Tips for Second Bananas | Second Banana

March 19, 2026

Living sex-positively in a culture that still side-eyes desire isn't always easy. Here's how Second Bananas protect their erotic identity, find their people, and thrive — unapologetically.

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Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy: A Beginner's Guide | Second Banana

March 13, 2026

New to ethical non-monogamy? Whether you're poly, solo poly, relationship anarchist, or just curious — here's what ENM actually means, what makes it ethical, and how Second Banana holds space for every structure.

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Reflecting on The Ethical Slut with Second Banana

March 12, 2026

The Ethical Slut is the book that gave a generation permission to love freely. Here's an honest look at its legacy, its blind spots, and why the conversation it started still matters — and where Second Banana picks up the thread.

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All Women Are Women: Second Banana's Commitment to Trans Inclusion | Second Banana

March 9, 2026

At Second Banana, all women are women — full stop. Here's what our commitment to trans inclusion actually looks like, and why a truly sex-positive space can't be one without it.

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Are You Proudly Demisexual? Then You're a Second Banana

March 9, 2026

Demisexual and done with dating apps that just don't get it? Second Banana was built for people who need emotional connection before attraction catches fire. Welcome to your new home!

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Tantra: The Ancient Practice That Modern Sex Gets Wrong | Second Banana

Kink vs Fetish: What's the Difference and Why It Matters | Second Banana

Solo Polyamory: The Radical Act of Choosing Yourself First | Second Banana

Fantasy-Specific Hookups: How Second Banana Changes the Game | Second Banana

You're Not Alone: LGBTQ+, Autism, ADHD, and Kink | Second Banana

Sexual Sovereignty in a Repressed Society: Survival Tips for Second Bananas | Second Banana

Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy: A Beginner's Guide | Second Banana

Reflecting on The Ethical Slut with Second Banana

All Women Are Women: Second Banana's Commitment to Trans Inclusion | Second Banana

Are You Proudly Demisexual? Then You're a Second Banana

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