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Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire: Why You’re Not Broken | Second Banana
May 6, 2026
You don’t think about sex until something gets you in the mood. Your partner seems to want it out of nowhere. Neither of you is broken — you just have different desire styles. Here’s the science that explains everything, and why it matters more than your libido.
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