Compatibility

Posts pertainining to compatibility in the Second Banana community.

You’re Not Asking / for Too Much” in large serif, amber italic on the key phrase. Subhead: “You’re just asking the wrong person.” Pull quote: “The corrective for ‘I ask for too much’ is to want less. The corrective for ‘wrong person’ is to ask someone else.” Rule gradient red→amber→green. Validated ✓.

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You’re Not Asking for Too Much (You’re Just Asking the Wrong Person)

October 23, 2026

There’s a difference between having needs that are “a lot” and being in a dynamic where your needs don’t fit. Here’s how people end up apologising for wanting reciprocity — and what the diagnosis actually is.

Compatibility

You’re Not Asking for Too Much (You’re Just Asking the Wrong Person)

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